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Ohhh, this one is so tricky. Do you love him, and do you really want to be with him? I think this may be fixable with some good communication, but ultimately, the problem seems to be down to having different preferences in how touchy-feely you want to be and how often you would like to be in touch. Even if he can intellectually understand that just because you do not desire as much contact as he does, it doesn't mean that you don't care about him, will either one of you really be happy long-term with not getting your preferences met? You can try to compromise, but I think you really have to think long and hard together on what exactly is still comfortable for each partner while fulfilling the needs of the other. I think if you sit down together and talk about this, maybe you can try to find some compromise and see if it works for you - like agreeing that you sleep in the same bed every night and can cuddle, but it can't be sexual, or that you can hold hands while you go for a walk - but you will be the one to initiate it. Good luck and I hope you can work it out!