Where are all the good guys?

All of the guys I've been speaking to romantically have turned out to be dicks. They pretend their interested in me, we flirt, and then they say they only want me for sex and aren't looking for a relationship or just start randomly ignoring me. When igo on night outs all a guy wants is to pull. Where are the respectable guys who actually want a girlfriend and will at least reply to them by text?

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  • You are under 18. There aren't that many men of that age who are not focused on sex since hormones are gushing out of their ears and eyes. They exists, but they are often invisible, shy, too uncomfortable to do anything. They need time too. As you grow older, their hormones will stabilize and they will be more talkable, Some will definitely stay jerks (if not most) but a lot of them will be wiser and know more what they want and it won't be only sex. If you were 18, I wold tell you seek older guys, But in your case, I don't think it is advisable lol

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  • EXACTLY!!! Where are the nice, romantic, selfless, loving and genuine guys?

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    • Yes!

    • They died when there are other girls ready to put out, or they've been in the friendzone too long

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  • So if a guy wants a relationship he's a good, respectable guy but if he doesn't want one then he's a jerk?

    You might want to rethink that one. I always thought a guy's personality was important, not where and under what circumstances he wants to park his dick.

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    • No im saying that I don't know why guys would speak to me and chat for ages and express interest in me and have nce conversations and then all of sudden say oh I just want sex that's it

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    • Well I'd say that's leading me on. Don't compliment me and have deep conversations with me and make me feel special if you just want to have sex and move on

    • Thats life. Guys lead girls on, girls lead guys on. It sucks but you can't always avoid it

  • Well, i can imagine how you feel, sometimes we just have to search through the garbage to find the gold. Just have faith, they are definitely out there, just meet more guys to increase your chances. And i'm sorry for all those guys who turned out to be jerks, not all of us do that, i married the girl i fell in love with and have never treated her with any sort of disrespect. So don't give up, he is out there :)

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  • Consult your friend zone. The guys you don't speak to romantically tend to be the ones who aren't dicks.

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    • The guys in my friendZone are gay

    • all of them?

    • Yes I don't know many guys I only know guys who want me for sex and gay guys haha

  • They're busy with advancing their career
    or practicing hobbies away from all the
    relationship confusion.

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  • You'll eventually find some good guys lurking just around the corner

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  • Maybe you're just an uninteresting person who guys generally don't want to interact with above a sexual basis.

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    • They've both complimented my personality a lot :) im not a sex object

  • You haven't met a nice badass guy. This kind of guy is in the balance.

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  • Do you have a guy friend that treats you very well but you only see him as a friend? Could be him

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    • No guy friends

    • Oh, most of the good guys are just around not being overly pushy. Playing vid games, hobbies, studying trying to get a head in life. Only to be hurt by some girl but I'm sure you'll meet one, some day.

  • Probably good guys don't wanna be in a relationship cause you're underage, just give it some time will ya

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    • I'm 17 and 18 next month

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    • I'm saying it's not Because I'm underage- the guys I am speaking to are my age

    • well yeah but you know normally guys that age don't wanna get into something serious majority of the times

  • Those guys who just want sex are idiots lol Im here

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  • I try to be a good guy, but I'm already taken.

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  • Good guys are there, just hard to find nowadays.

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  • Better question
    Where are all the good girls?

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  • We're at home on GaG haha

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  • Where are you meeting said guys? O_o

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    • One when I was out on a night out but he seemed sweet and genuine and now he's ignoring me for no reason and the other through a youth group

    • Ask him why he is ignoring you then o_O

    • I have? He hasn't replied to that

  • I am right here baby 😉

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  • I'm a good guy

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  • Present madam :-)

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  • I'm telling your parents

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    • I'm 17 :)

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    • so you came to that conclusion based on two guys, who are probably children still... alright I'm done here. good luck

    • They're 18 and 20 but ok :)

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  • Well maybe you're just attracting the wrong guy.

    You are more likely to find a good guy if you make the first move yourself, that way you immediately avoid all the douches.

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  • Be more selective and do not date any guy and dont let any guy get close to you. Take it slow, know him first and then date him. I met great guys in my life and trust me there are loads of genuine, loving, honest guys out there.

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  • Yes, where are you? All I ask for is that someone puts effort into the relationship and likes me for me. I guess for most guys, thats too much to ask for.

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  • Everywhere o. o
    Got some in class, people I knew from online, the train

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  • How the hell I know?

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