Most Helpful Girl
she would contact you if she cared. dont send her flowers.
Most Helpful Guy
I wouldn't recommend sending flowers. I'm sure she'd love it, but right now her situation seems to require things going smoothly between her and her ex. I don't know exactly what their situation is, but an ex is an ex for a reason. I believe you still have a shot, though a long one. age isn't a factor when it comes to love! As long as you are on somewhat similar maturity levels, things can work out nicely between the two of you. 13 years is no big deal, trust me. If she truly cares about you, I believe she'll look past the age difference. It could actually work in your favor, since the trend these days is older women dating younger men.
I'd recommend contacting her, because women often play the more passive role. She could be waiting on you. Do it.