You know when you don't know where you stand with someone or having to ask what are we. I really really can't do it? Things between me and a guy are confusing right now and it's time to ask what's going on, I've been meaning to do so but when I do see him I can't get it out. I want to know his intentions, what he thinks of me, what WE are. Why is it so hard, I don't dare to. I'm super scared of being vulnerable or hear "I'm not looking for anything serious" after all this time. Am I the only one who really don't dare to do it? What if I walk around thinking he's super serious about while he might just like me and nothing more, then I'd be wasting my time. I want to know.
Most Helpful Guy
Communication is the name of the game. Be straight. Otherwise confusion sets in, and that can lead to misunderstandings and break up. If you are straight, expect a straight answer. Don't leave things half said.
This way, you'll know exactly where you stand!!0
Most Helpful Girl
Well think of it this way: if he ISN'T looking for the same thing as you it's gonna hurt a hell of a lot more if you put it off another month, or two months, or three months and find out after you've completely fallen for the guy and become attached to him that he actually isn't interested in anything serious...
You're better off finding out early on what he is looking for and what his intentions are.0