Most Helpful Guy
This is why you/he should have #dated someone within your/his own age group. So he wouldn't have to be ashamed of having a girlfriend that could be his daughter's age to introduce to his family
Also he was like 35 dating a 16-year-old? Yeah... this whole thing sounds toxic/creepy as hell
So yeah you should leave him.
Most Helpful Girl
One More Year, @rsstanford, This then would be Considered what I call the "Seven year itch," where someone is getting Itchy to just get out on their own and leave it all behind, and this would Be... You. In your case, this Toxic Waste is just a waste of space and of your precious time.
You have had Drama Queen redrick for a Month of Mondays and with him living with this ghost of yesterday and Not letting you be part of his own family on the other end, the name calling and disrespect that is in this Mixed beaten path bag is telling me and it should be telling you, that this Party is Over and time to give Rover his walking papers.
He is a bull dog and a big mouth and if you stay any longer, each year, here, dear, will only get worse, with him barking up the wrong tree and putting you on a short leash in this so-called 'Our relationship.'
It's War of the Roses and if he won't close the closure closet on that skeleton or allow you to Meet the parents, then tell him to lift his leg elsewhere now.
Good luck, you deserve better. xx