Would you date a guy like that?
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I'm not dating right now, but let me say that there are a lot of attractive men who are overweight, "borderline" overweight, and guys who are just carrying a little extra fluff. It in and of itself can be nice, too.
And just so you know, if you poll women on body types, very few of them would go for the giant, ripped, hulking masses of muscle. I usually see votes split between healthy/athletic/average muscle and those with a little additional weight.
And one more... a lot of women say that they are attracted to nice arms. You say you have them.
In the end, the person inside of you will keep the good people in your life. If a woman leaves or insults you for the body you're in, then I hope you can understand that you "dodged a bullet" (as the saying goes), even if it hurts to let go.