- From what you've described, Yes
- From what you've described, No
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you have to be on the same page and have a really understanding relationship when it comes to things of that nature. some may say it's cool, others not so much. in your case you guys don't have that going on and he's right to be upset.
if you know you're into that stuff but know it's not a big deal, ya gotta warn a guy first