What is a good, but mature way to develop a closer relationship with a woman you are interested in?
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"Its stuff like taking her cell phone and hiding it, and annoying her, and continually flicking her in the ear, or acting like a baffoon to get her to laugh."
^if u do stuff like dat, then i believe she'll get u do it in order to draw her attention somehow but not clearly flirty signs.
"I am not doing any of that, I graduated high school 2 years ago, that kind of stuff should have been left behind"
^eh relax u r still young :D
"What are some mature, intelligent ways to make your relationship closer? As of right now I am really good at small talk with women, or talking about me or them, and becoming friends but I never know where to take it from there. We are always forever talking about my job, or her favorite food."
^then it's good if u can handle small talk actually!
but anyway... talkin about yer job always is a no in my opinion... she might believe u r workaholic and u have no time for gals. as for her fav food... do u talk continuously about it?
" I just dont know where to go, and women always expect me to lead the conversation (I dont know why because I suck at it unless we are talking about meaningless things)."
^in this case i beleve u should suggest 'em to take turns instead who'll lead da conv!
anyway if u wanna flirt in a mature way... how about buyin her some nice gift to give her a hint dat u like her?
Emotions. You're not gonna argue your way into her pants. It's not some females-are-emotional-creatures point. It's just that flirting is not the same as debating the Republican primaries or the merits of Linux (usually).
And you have to touch her. You have to take the initiative and go for what you want. Obviously, she can reject you or stall you etc. But you have to try:
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