Its so frustrating because after a year he's still hot and cold. Oneday he seems like he's ready to go all in the next i feel like he's forgotten me. I told him recently i thought i wasfalling in love and ge said he had feelings for me too andmade a bunch of promises to keep me around but that wasweeks ago and he still hasn't seen me since.
Why do i like him so much and howcan i stop being so hung up? Is he just playimg me? I don't get his end game here. I just wanna move past him bit i fedl like im stuck and its starting to be a pain
Most Helpful Guy
Block him entirely. All social media, his phone and any app you can contact each other on. Get rid of his photos and delete all the texts or messages he sends you. I guarantee he is purposefully being hot and cold and you walked straight into his plan. A lot of guys do that. It makes you super dependent on them. He doesn't truly care for you because if he did he wouldn't be distant half the time. He's got you by the balls (metaphor).
Don't try to rationalize taking him back when he's nice to you when you know in the back of your mind he's not good for you and that's what you're trying to convince that he's good when he's not.
Most Helpful Girl
Forget about him and move on.