But it's quite the opposite. I'm chatty when I want to be, I'd descrive myself as a sociable introvert who likes to cut shit out of fake freindships, I don't seek to climb socially and I embrace friendships with people I feel are true, worthy people whether they are already popular people, or whether they are a little bit more quiet.
My problem is getting over the initial hurdle. I always think way too ahead and think about more reasons why things can't work out than why they can. I. e. career goals mean I won't be a very good boyfriend, even though people say I'd make an excellent one.
I guess I need to take the plunge sooner rather than later as the longer I put it off, the longer I'll be single and the sooner I realise this, the better. I've had opportunities to ask girls out but I didn't really get 100% confident in myself until halfway through uni and at this point, I was worried I'd end up getting loved up with a girl and having to get into an LDR, which I quite simply didn't want and didn't want to risk!
Also, today, it seems quite common to get drunk, sleep with a girl, get into a relationship rather than get a number, meet up, do an activity (drinks or dinner or something together a few times), then relationship then sex...
Can anyone help?
Most Helpful Girl
Hey i think if you like a girl... find out what kind of intrests she has to show you want to get to know her... make a little sweet gesture ie leaving a flower by her door... and just say hey do you like ice skatting i have never been and think it would be fun... after spendding some time togther even if its a group you'll slowly start feeling more at ease with her and it will be so much more easy.
Readding what you said i think your thinkking to much like... i need a girlfriend... is she girlfriend material... i know it sounds cheesy but the second you drop all that you'll be suprised you'll find someone when your not looking.
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Most Helpful Guy
I'm in the same boat. Although I'd call myself an introvert that has to be sociable by trade.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE