Just some background info before I ask. I've been dating my best friend for over 3 years now. I am 21 and he is 24. I run as a hobby and used to compete in school and it's something that's a big part of my life even now as an adult. I have really high stamina from this. He also is my first sexual partner. My boyfriend is a normal hard working man who has no interest in that but I don't care of course so his stamina is lower then mine.
Anyway in bed I always feel like he gets super exhausted from me because I need a lot to feel satisfied. I always seduce him to get him to go again and again and he never complains, he seems happy and always tells me how much he loves me. But I was telling one of my close friends this and she said I sound selfish. I got taken aback and I spoke to my boyfriend when we were laying in bed together and asked him if he feels pressured and he took his time answering me and said "Sometimes I'm really exhausted and you end up getting me in the mood again for more, I don't mind it but sometimes can we relax?" I told him I was really sorry and that he should tell me instead of keeping quiet about it and he said it's no big deal. I feel as though he was only saying that, to not hurt me :( I feel really bad now and would love any kind of advice as to what I should do, because honestly I feel like I really can't help myself sometimes.
Most Helpful Guy
Masturbate more. Honestly it is hard just because like you said he works hard so I imagine he needs his time off to relax so it's harder for him to exercise and have your stamina. He is trying but maybe sometimes when you want more just let him rest grab a laptop and finger yourself to porn or do that before you guys fool around.0
Most Helpful Girl
props for communicating about it I will give you that much. You say he is a normal hard working man, is maybe work making him tired as well? maybe he can eat you out more or something. You aren't being selfish exactly its just you need a lot to satisfy you and thats not your fault its just how your body is and you shouldn't feel guilty for that and you actualy are trying to be considerate to how he is feeling so your being a good girlfriend, I am not a professional tho as you can guess so maybe ask a professional on what to do because if you dont get satisified it may start to cause problems for you guys.0