This summer I'm planning a trip to go on a safari in Africa. I asked my friends and most of them have to work, school, or just don't have the money. But my one friend has agreed to go with me. The thing is, he's a guy. And my boyfriend of 6 months is really mad that I'm going to be sharing a room with a guy. But the main reason why my boyfriend is upset is because in the past my guy friend has admitted that he liked me more than a friend. But we had the whole we're only friends conversation. (we had this conversation last summer)
I think of us as just friends, but my boyfriend thinks he still has feeling for me which I don't think it's true.
Personally I think my boyfriend is overreacting and making a big deal out of nothing.
What do you think?
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The friend has agreed to go because he hopes something romantic will happen and you'll forget your boyfriend and come back from Africa as his girlfriend. Guaranteed.
Accepting him to come along is cruel towards the friend because he has hopes and you're going to turn them down, and it's cruel towards the boyfriend because he's the one who has to worry at home.
Grow some balls and go alone. It'll be the best solution for all concerned. Even you will grow in a completely different way during your trip when you have to solve all problems yourself.0