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You can be with someone, sure. You pretty much described my dad but it ruined the relationship with my mom so SEEK THERAPY.
I think you should seek counseling or a mentor & focus on building yourself, before trying to build a romantic relationship.
As you said, you have experienced some terrible things, those issues need to be dealt with first for the sake of your emotional & psychological well-being. God Bless :)
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