Most Helpful Guy
i feel you would need to find someone who understands. or if said self harm is unnoticeable then don't mention it. the past is the past so take a lesson from dogs and kick some grass over that shit and keep on keepin on
Most Helpful Girl
They are all wrong to judge. I know both my brother and I would certainly date someone like this. They would hopefully get to trust me enough to tell me what had happened to cause this self harming. It would be part of my love for them to try and guide them further away from the trauma that caused it.
Self harm is nothing to be ashamed of once you've stopped, and people really shouldn't judge as they've most probably never been in that situation and just don't understand.