All of my friends really want boyfriends and I'm here rejecting them all. Isn't the guy ment to be the one who doesn't want to commit, not the girl? Cause I just don't want a commitment. I still like talking to them in a flirty way but I hate them feeling like we will end up as a thing.
Does this make me a player?
Most Helpful Guy
"Lately a lot of guys have been asking me out or to be their girlfriend. I am a natural flirt (which is sometimes good and other times bad) and I enjoy talking to guys but as soon as they start to get needy, cling or want a realationship I back away. "
^if that's so then i believe u should mention beforehand u r against datin in order to avoid further misunderstandin.
"All of my friends really want boyfriends and I'm here rejecting them all. Isn't the guy ment to be the one who doesn't want to commit, not the girl? "
^not always... basically when someone doesn't wanna commit chances r he's a guy... but there r some gals who think this way like u.
"Does this make me a player?"
^no... as long as u r honest wid yer intentions... no. u'll be a player ONLY if u keep on tellin 'em u want to be in a relationship... whilst yer main purpose's just flirt wid 'em ;)
Most Helpful Girl
If you don't want a relationship right now, that's 100% fine. You're not ready, you're not into it, whatever - it's all good. You don't have to be forced (or pressured) into something you don't want simply because someone else thinks you ought to. You are the most important person in your own life and you get to decide if and when you date someone exclusively.