Okay, this isn't a case of choosing one of the guys. The guy I arranged a date with is the guy I really like and I have no romantic interest in the other two, mainly because my eyes are set on that one guy. The guy I like postponed our date which was meant to be happening right now but he had work commitments. He told me that we will meet and that he looks forward to it but we've been talking for two weeks and I can't wait around forever until he finds time in his schedule.
I have two other guys asking me to the cinema, to hot tubs, for drives etc almost every single day and I've been constantly refusing because I don't want to lead them on and I like this other guy. I wouldn't say I'm seeing the guy and I don't think he would say that either because we haven't met. If we were, I would tell the other guys I was seeing someone but I would feel wrong lying.
I don't know how to tell the guys I'm not interested... I've had guys turn it around on me saying I was conceited and assumed they like me, which always turns me away from saying it now. One of the guys, I really like as a person, he's intelligent and so kind. I don't know what to do in the situation, not even my parents know! My mum advised me not to wait around too long for the guy I like too. :(
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You're a single girl, you're SUPPOSED to play the field, so go out with those other guys asking you out!
A common mistake many younger people make in dating, is making the person they like the most, the priority.
Do what more seasoned adults do... make the person who clearly likes you the most, the priority! These other guys seriously like you and are making it known, so u should make them the priority than the one that "you want but can't have" at this moment!
PLAY. THE. FIELD. ;-)1