My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months and A few weeks ago I found a picture of a girl he dated last year. But It wasn't your average picture. She was in his bed with her pants down. You couldn't see anything but the thought is still there. I didn't say anything but I deleted it. I just hoped he forgot about the picture. But now he reactivated his Facebook and he told me to add him. And again there is a picture of this girl in one of the profile pictures. I'm a little annoyed and trying to figure out if I'm over reacting. Hopefully someone can help me and give good advice!
Would you be mad if your boyfriend or girlfriend had a sexy picture of a ex on their phone?
What Guys Said 4
If you need advice, then throw this guy. He's a goner and betray you sooner or later.0
What Girls Said 9
Oh no, I'd be pretty pissed too. There's no reason to keep sexy pics of someone who is no longer your lover.0
Well considering you have only been together for 6 months, It would depend how deep in his camera roll the picture was taken. Ofcourse we all forget to delete pictures, but I wouldn't worry too much about it. You deleted it and that was that, if he goes and looks for it I would wonder why.. as for the whole Facebook thing, he just reactivated it, he probably didn't think much about it, I know if I reactivate mine, my profile picture is of me and my ex. You aren't over reacting, because you haven't made any irrational arguments with him, try to let it go but see if he deletes it. Honestly though I still have pictures of my ex's on social media because I'm not really fussed xx1
How did you find the picture? Were you snooping? How old was it? Like, is it just an old pic he never bothered deleting or was it sent to him recently? If it's old, he's probably forgotten about it.
As for the facebook pic if it's just an old pic he didn't delete then it's no biggie but if it's still set as his profile pic I'd ask him to change it. Could be he just doesn't really pay attention to fb and didn't even realize his profile pic was still one with her.0
I wouldn't be happy for sure, it would hurt me. I don't think you're overreacting because most of people would be annoyed. But maybe he just forgot about it. The same goes with the fb pictures. I think he just doesn't give much importance to it, so you shouldn't be worried. Especially because it's an old picture that he posted years ago.
I understand why you just deleted it and didn't told him anything, but if you keep feeling uncomfortable about the pic he had on the phone, I think you should talk with him and say how you feel. If you talk with him, maybe he will show you that it doesn't mean anything and that it wasn't important for him.0
Yes I would0
Yeah I would not like that at all. I never keep pictures of my exes, especially ones from a year ago. Just because the picture was there though did not mean that he was looking at it. He may have simply just forgot about it.0
i wouldn't like that0
I seriously think you should talk to him about it. And yes, I'd be very mad.0
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