However, in the past couple of weeks some of her friends and siblings have revealed to me that she did indeed have, and still has, a crush on me. However, now the issue is that we're both going to college in different states in 4 days. I'm starting to regret not acting in June, even though I know I couldn't have. I can't keep her off of my mind, but I'm not sure what I should do. I haven't seen her very much all summer. Of course I'd love to see her one last time before she leaves. But I don't really want it to be under these circumstances. She's a fairly conservative girl, she doesn't like to move too fast, I don't think she's even dated before, and I feel like asking her out now will cause things to seem rushed and/or panicked and might scare her off. Is it worth it asking her out when we're just going to part ways until thanksgiving? Should I just wait until Christmas break when we'll have more time and it won't seem so rushed? Thanks for your help
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I don't think you should ask her out because of your circumstances. However, i do believe that you should tell her how you feel before you both go to different colleges.