I find myself more ok with sex that is safe early on and wanting a real legit relationship built on trust before I do anything more. Like when I meet a guy and there is good chemistry I can feel safe with protected sex but I draw a line. I love the freedom in a relationship to get crazy but I can't get myself to do the other stuff though I have one guy I hook up with and he is my heroine I don't know why he is the only one I have no limits with. Well I know it is because I feel safe with him. He protected me once.
Most Helpful Guy
Not weird at all. Do what you feel comfortable with. Some women seem to find oral more intimate than intercourse. Sounds normal enough to me.1
Most Helpful Girl
Well, I always use a condom when giving oral.
On the receiving end as a woman, I can't protect myself against stds if a hook up were to go down on me.
So, I kind of get you with this!
At least intercourse is protected and there are limited worries.0