Most Helpful Guy
I personally don't think it is hard. However in our society we over sexualize everything to he point where I imagine some see it as perfectly okay to indulge any and all fantasies they have regardless of how it affects others. Its everywhere and it can have an affect on how people percieve sex. That said, find someone of good character who isn't impulsive and tends to think out his actions, he is more likely to reflect on his own thoughts and actions and decide a course of action that would not cause harm to others.
Most Helpful Girl
The majority of people are fickle and they lack willpower. Whenever the opportunity knocks their door, they open it. They find it hard to control themselves. It's hard to find a person who holds on to their values.