Would you date a man or woman who cannot have kids?

Why or why not? Explain.
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  • I wouldn't simply due to the fact that I'd would like to try and have children with a fertile partner in the future :-)

    However i do feel sorry for men and women who do have fertility issues. Life can be cruel in this instances :-(

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Seeing as I can't conceive I would be a real hypocrite if I wouldn't.

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What Guys Said 43

  • Yes, as im still not sure i even want kids myself and if we really wanted some we could just adopt.

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  • Yes, I would. If I love them, I will marry them. If I want a child with her, we can adopt one. Even if it is expensive and time consuming (probably more than it should be!) it is worth it if it means I'm with the person I fell in love with :D

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  • I don't really like kids to begin with; I find them annoying at times, so yes absolutely I will

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    • ohhhh you meanie! kids are cuteeeeee!

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    • @GirlsLie Whahah. I'm here until sept 04 XD

    • Double jealous, dang it lol

  • Yes I would. If I loved the woman I would work something out with her. We probably would adopt some kids instead.

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  • I would like to have a family but it is not a dealbreaker - Age is obviously a huge issue, the 26 year old me would have thought a lot harder about it.
    That said by the time you think about things like this you are so in love it becomes a non issue. There are options that can be explored such as adoption, fostering, surrogacy etc.
    I would be very surprised if I met anyone who would rule it out categorically.

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  • No I enjoy having my 3 children and always wanted to be a father.

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  • I. want to have kids one day but if that won't be possible I will never see It as a reason to dump the woman I love
    Science is pretty awesome today and if not science adoption is another option too
    If I'm happy with a person something that cannot be changed won't be the end of the world, there's always another way

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  • Well, the point of dating is to find a partner for marriage (technically) and I'm not sure I would want to marry someone who I cannot start a family with. My brain says "no" but my heart says "eh, maybe."

    If I'm crazy about you then yes I would, but it would be a little hard I have to admit

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  • Can't as in a biological thing or won't as in doesn't want them?

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    • the first one :P

      why do you have to be so complicated xD

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    • If you say so dummy!

      But yeah I somehow do agree with you, our generation is fcked up in a way. You'll find her when you least expected :P

    • Time will tell lol.

  • Right now I have to say no. I want to have children with my own genes.

    BUT... if I meet an amazing woman that can't have kids, I can probably get over this.

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  • If they biologically can't have kids? If I really like the person, something like that won't matter. Adoption is always an option. Of course it won't be the same, but we'll still be raising a child one way or another, so yeah, sure.

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  • Maybe but ma heart would sank upon hearing u say that 💔

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  • Yeah I think so, as long as she's willing to adopt and have a surrogate mother. The latter being because I want to have at least one biological child.

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  • Yes, Absolutely! As much as I plan to be a father someday, there are many ways of doing so. I'd happily adopt.

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  • Absolutely! And I would probably get even more love of her just because I didn't let it make any difference :D

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  • Yes, I would. I'm far from being certain that I want kids anyway, and I certainly don't want them now or in the near future.

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  • i'm fine with that. why? for one: no condoms and two; i don't really need the responsibility. still, if she already had kids, i wouldn't turn her away... nor would i refuse her if she wanted kids.

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  • That's a bummer but ehh... sure.
    Science will think of a way.

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  • Date yes, marry no.
    At least I know she won't get pregnant. If she has no STIs then I could go raw so it would be perfect.

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  • If I liked her enough, I would. It'd also make it 100% easier to decide if I want biological kids someday or not.

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  • I have kids already and if she wanted kids. We could adopt one or some.

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  • Yes, because I never intend on having children myself.

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  • I would date someone because i like her and on that moment i don'tthink about kids yet

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  • I am not dating someone in hopes of starting a family with her, long ways off from that, so yes, I will date her.

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  • Yes, because we can just adopt anyways :)

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  • I would prefer it.

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  • Love is all you need

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  • I personally don't want kids so yes.

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  • yes because I don't want kids

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  • Sounds dandy, sweet like candy

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What Girls Said 30

  • cannot as in it's something biological or doesn't want to?

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  • It's a tough one because I really wanna have kids of my own. But if the guy was truly my perfect soulmate or something along these lines, I guess I would be with him. I mean, I'd rather be with a guy who can't have kids than be forever alone. Plus, adoption is an option too. That's how I look at it.

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  • Yes I could. I could be with a person who can't have kids but I would still want kids so we'd have to find an alternative solution to make it happen

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  • Yep, there's lot of children who need to be adopted so if my boyfriend couldn't have babies we would adopt. We are already in the process of being foster parents ^-^

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  • Yes. If I love him and he loves me... and we decided that we actually want a child, we could try for adoption.

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  • Yeah, I would. I'm really not that interested in having kids anyways. Plus in my opinion it's always better to adopt.

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  • I would like to have kids, but it isn't really a top priority in my life so if for some reason my partner couldn't have kids, I wouldn't really mind. You can always adopt too!

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  • Yes, because I hate kids, and True love is true love. Ya know?

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  • Yes, that wouldn't be a problem for me since I'm not planning on having kids.

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  • That would be my dream man, yesss lol. I don't want kids.

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  • That would actually be kind of ideal because I don't want kids..

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  • Yes, I would. I want children, but if he can't deliver then we'll just get a donor.

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  • If the guy was worth it, I would be sad but wouldn't leave him for this reason alone

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  • That'll be perfect as I don't want to have any children.

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  • Dang!! I've been thinking about this but I really really want kids of my own so...

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  • Yes because I don't want any kids. Although, I might change my mind when I get older

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  • Yes, I would.. I love kids but sometimes the idea of having kids scares me so maybe I'll adopt..

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  • Yeah because i don't care whether I have em or not.

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  • I wouldn't mind dating a guy that cannot have kids 😊 because I don't want kids and don't like kids

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  • Yes, because I don't feel the need to have kids.
    I wouldn't be upset if I did or didn't.

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  • Yes I would. We could always adopt.

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  • The world is overpopulated as it is

    adoption

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  • That would be ideal.

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  • No. I want kids that share my genes.

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  • Yeah, we'd adopt :) or I'd have IVF or something

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  • Yeah because I dont want any

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  • I want kids.. Of my own. So..

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  • No because I want kids a lot

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  • It wouldn't be a problem as I don't fancy having kids.

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  • I can't do childbirth pain or stomach stretch marks and I like my tight coochie I don't want it stretched out from giving birth and I don't want my boobs to shrink. I have great boobs. Also, I spend a lot and I have short patience with kids. I worked with kids and watched kids. If he don't want kids that's fine with me. We can adopt too

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