Most Helpful Girl
I'd be fine with that... is it just sex or do you have issues with hugging, kissing, etc? If it is just sex then you probably dont need to tell her - you could just say you want to wait until you know each other better and she will probably just think she's found a great guy whonisnt just after sex.
Do you know why you have these anxieties.
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Most Helpful Guy
Some women would be happy that's you want to take is slow, some will be suspicious, and some will want it before you're comfortable.
If you have anxiety about sex, it will help to discuss your insecurities with her, it can help you work past them and even help her figure out how to help you.