you know at first i though a cougar was just a woman over the age of 40 that digs younger guys. but now as i'm getting deeper into it it also seems that these "cougars" buy these younger guys gifts etc in order to keep them coming back for more i guess. i mean i dont know how many of you guys ever seen this old commercial on a cougar dating site. the commercial takes place at some bar with a young guy browsing around then a young girl approaches him and ask him if he can buy her a drink, then all of the sudden the cougar comes along and grabs the young girl and tosses her aside and tell the young man "how about i buy YOU a drink?"
it also seems like this is how it functions in reality too as my cousin who is two years older than me once had a cougar grip on to him. this lady took things to the extreme with this guy, she bought him a 40" 1080px Sony plasma screen tv, a pair of Beats By Dre headsets, a PS4 and a few other expensive goodies within a 3 month period. coincidently during this time my cousin got a speeding ticket within this time frame and he vent it out with her and she even volunteer to pay that ticket for him! lol my attitude was "oooookkkayyy"
anyway i just want to get a heads up since i've always wanted to experiment with a cougar one day. but if I ( a young guy) one day goes out and approaches and hits on an older woman and she likes me back does this mean she's automatically gonna assume that i'm gonna expect all of these things from her?
i pray to God that this is a NO NO as this will make me feel pathetic. you know my attitude is that i am a man and when i want something you best believe i will go out and work for it to make it mines. i really dont need a woman i'm dating pampering me worst she would with a spoil brat son of her's.
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No. But I think because the ladies you speak of act a certain way, they attract a certain type of guy.