The next day I didn't hear anything about the plans, and he didn't speak to me until about 8 pm, just detailing his day and saying he was on the couch with his roommate. That also irritated me and I asked him if we still had plans. He said "sorry got caught up playing poker with the boys" and wanted to know if I was still going to his friends party. He did ask to make it up to me twice and said sorry that he should've said something. I was like this keeps happening and I think I just need space because I don't trust that you think of us as a partnership because you continually just think for yourself. It really hurts because I think he's such a wonderful guy yet he does really selfish things like that.
He didn't respond.
The next day he didn't say anything to me either, which hurt because it was my housewarming party for the new home I just moved into. The day after the party I texted him asking if he wants to work on things with me or just breakup, and all he said was that "breakup or not I want to still be friends and be there for you. Let's just go to this party and be people and figure things out later"
I said no and to get his things, because if he wanted that, why didn't he just come over the night before. He was invited, my parents were there and his friends were also invited (none showed up).