I am old fashion and if I was not single I still open the car door for my girlfriend but to bad I'm single :(
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I don't. I find it degrading for her to expect me to fill a gender role to prove I am a gentleman, when none of the women I meet expect a woman to have to fill their gender role to prove they are a lady. If I actually met a woman that believed women should fill their gender role to be considered a lady then I might be willing to play along and see how I like that. As it is now though the hypocrisy that men should have to act like men, but that women should feel free to act however they want is an instant deal breaker for me.
We can't have freedom from gender roles while still putting one gender into a gender role. That isn't an equal relationship. That is more like a master servant relationship. The only way we can have equality is for neither to be in a gender role, of for both to be in a gender role.2