Hi, I'm an international student from South Korea. I want to ask people how can I be more confidence about relationship with girls? That doesn't mean that I don't have confidence of my life. I'm quite good at studying my field and having social life with male friends such as drinki g and talking about sports.
Only the problem is when I hang out with girls, I have no idea what to do. Yes, I know that being an Asian guy has a lot of disadvantages on dating, but I'm not too short, fat, or ugly (at least, my opinion lel). I'm 5'11 (180cm) and 155 lbs (71 kg) and I have an typical Korean face. I don't know it helps you, this is my pic imgur. com/0BpW5Ty imgur. com/7UeM3kv
(I'm gonna delete them after I got some answers cuz I dont want to my friends see this post)
However, besides all of my racial and physical things, when I am with a girl, I start to worry what do I need to say, and it leads to have a boring conversation.
Please, help me girls or guys I need your advice !
Most Helpful Girl
when you're talking to a girl, don't worry about what to do since that just prevents you from listening to her. be a good listener so you can ask her questions and bring up stories of your own, make jokes, be friendly etc. conversation should be free-flowing and not like interrogation.