Do you think a 17 year old girl dating a 28 year old man gross?


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  • I don't think it's gross at all. I wouldn't think twice about dating a guy that age if he matches me and he has a nice personality and appearance! People will always judge no matter what, so why care what others think? If he is genuine, if he really cares about you and not just your looks, then he's definitely a keeper😉

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  • "Gross" is not the word I would use. I would say "illegal."

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  • I see it as normal for the girl to be attracted to the older guy. But, WTF is wrong with the guy that goes for the 17 year old? If you put 10 years on the same situation it's not even an issue. But at 17, it seems like Mr. 28 is taking advantage of the girl.

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    • He isn't taking advantage of me. He loves me.

    • That's wonderful I hope it all works out. But to answer the question you posted I don't think it's "gross" but it is illegal (under 18 unless parents consent)

  • Yes, it's weird no doubt because the girl is not even 18 yet, and so there will be difference in maturity level and thinking as well and it won't be easy for the 28-year-old man to handle that but if he thinks that's not a problem and if he thinks he can handle this difference well, then it shouldn't be a problem. It's not wrong or something, it's weird that's all. If the girl thinks that she is okay with it, then also there is should be no issues as such.

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  • It's fine. People will judge you over all sorts of nonsense these days.

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    • You're right.

    • It's ridiculous really. How presumptuous and quick people are to judge.

      The age difference does not immediately mean he's using you for sex. I've heard of 18 year old girls getting married eventually to guys 10 years older and of course that's okay (because 18 is considered this magic number). That's the other thing. I get talked down to by people in their late teens and early twenties even, addressing me as a child in that condescending manner. I am like, "Really? You're 19 and you're telling me... (only two years older)." I have had people in their mid twenties refer to me as the next generation that sucks.

      Yep, it's quite irritating. But keep doing what you think is right.

  • hmmmmm yeah maybe... I'm almost 21 and didn't want to date this 16 and a half year old girl who was so into me last year because i thought she was too young and innocent. Something holds me back whenever i think of doing something and i end up thinking that it would be weird. She was beautiful though -_-

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  • Just don't have sex till you become of age. You won't be able to visit him in jail. Enjoy the relationship though. If he makes you happy that's all that matters

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    • Even this isn't always true. In my state, the age of consent is 16. In many, it is 16 or 17...

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    • Oh I am sorry. I confused your post with someone else's I think who said specifically 18...

    • @r3d_anonymous you're fine

  • Gross is not the word I would use.

    What does a 17 year old girl have to offer a 28 year old man besides sex. I would not trust an man who is chasing girls in high school. They usually manipulate young girls as they are more naive due to inexperience and that face the are not emotional and mentality developed.

    If you can't tell your parents about him due to his age than you know that the relationship is not appropriate.

    Also it is important to mention that you are in completely different stages in life so it is unlikely to last.

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  • 17 and 28.. not a good idea..

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  • Yes, I do think that's kind of gross.

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  • Yeah... *awkward*

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