would It effect your relationship or become jealous if they both worked together each day, went to the gym together, went to a nice restaurant once a week, and shared the same apartment?
would you feel weird about going to their apartment and not want to go hang out at there place because of the roommate?
- Yea it would really bother me and I wouldn't date them.
- No, i would be fine with it.
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, dating someone who shares an apartment with a best friend of the opposite sex and basically functions like a boyfriend minus sex with her would stop me from dating them. I'm simply realistic about the fact that platonic relationships between men and women do not exist if there is even the tiniest bit if physical, mental, or emotional attraction. With all of those activities and quality time spent together, how would there not be a mental or emotional attraction? The whole idea would make me uncomfortable. I'd rather not embrace a situation that's most likely to be problematic. I wouldn't give him a chance until he establishes his own independence or finds a different roommate.
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Most Helpful Guy
It might be ok because a lot of people in there early 20s share apartment anyways when in collage. Only thing I see is where you spend so much time together and than spending time with the partner.