So I've been dating a girl for a month and things have been going great. Then yesterday she told me she was feeling down. I called she didn't pick up then I sent her a text and she didn't respong. I ended up falling asleep and when I woke up 4 hours later she texts me about how she feels that I don't care about her at all. the thing is other times when she has felt down I've always been there for her. I've even driven down to see her because she felt sad. This is the one time I hadn't done that. She said this was the time time she really needed me. I know I messed up and I should have been there for her but I just don't understand how one day and one mistake can completely change how you view a person. The worst part is she called her ex and he was at work and made time to call her. I thought she wanted space or not to talk. She said I should have kept trying. that even her asshole of an ex made time for but I didn't. What can I do do to fix this? Am I in the wrong? How can one mistake ruin everything so fast? I just never wanted to hurt her and I feel I did. What should I do?
Most Helpful Girl
You shouldn't be beating yourself up about it. She has to understand that you can't just drop everything and drive to her every time she has a bad day. Her saying all that makes her seem insensitive like she is just entitled. You called and you text.. and what did she not do? Answer. So she has time to call her ex but can't answer your calls? or respond to your text messages? She is going about it the wrong way. The way I see it, is that you were there for her, and she doesn't appreciate all the times you were or when you tried to reach out but was given no respond.0
Most Helpful Guy
Bud, you did nothing wrong, she did. First of all, she has some emotional, stability and confidence issues. She sounds like a bit of a drama queen where everything has to be about her. You did try to call, you did text. There is nothing wrong with making her wait for a few hours. Who the hell can't wait for a few hours? It took her less than four hours to call her ex. Right there is a huge mistake on her part. Who is she dating, you or him? For her to call her ex tells me she still has feelings and still thinks of him. She was way too quick to jump into his arms and he was too quick to see her too! Red flag with that situation big time! She needs to learn some patience.0