Most Helpful Guy
It seems to sabotage mine time and again. And I've experienced the opposite too: someone who liked me and sabotaged themself due to insecurity.
So self-love is probably a good idea. It's practise though, not just thinking. You have to allow yourself to do stuff you feel is inappropriate, but want to do/feel is right.
You have to go for what you want regardless of the outcome.
Basically you have to allow yourself to emerge from your hiding place into public view. Some people did this early in life, probably due to the environment they grew up in. The rest of us have to learn it along the way.
Most Helpful Girl
Yes you can