I have very strict parents who control every bit of my life- checks my phone, does not allow me to have many frieds, does not let me go out nor allows anyone to come over (yes that conservative and unrealistic)
So way back, i bumped into this guy, got along pretty well but then stopped communicating. He only recently started talking to me again and has tried once again to ask my to go out, have a coffee and hang out (he tried for 1-2 years in trying to get me out) but every time I've refused him and explained my situation to him yet he would not take it as an excuse, so being stupid me, i said we could hang out during the upcoming weekend, when i know i cannot in any way
How do i get out of this now guys?
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Well, if you want to get out of it, you need to be firm with your 'no', and stand your ground. End communication if necessary.
If you like this guy and want to spend time with him, then you have some thinking to do.
You are in a tricky situation, being 24 years old and having parents control you like that. I've seen this before, and it usually ends up with an estranged relationship with parents/children. The adult children will spend time with that person anyway, behind their parents back.