I don't know I'm really over all that "men should pay" crap. Like if I'm with a guy and he's a bit broke that week,, I'll pay half for dinner. Like it's honestly not a big deal to me. We're all equal! I mean if he says "YOU PAY" then it's a different story, but if I offer like it's whatever.
Most Helpful Guy
If a man should be a gentleman then the the woman needs to deserve such treatment. It can't just be expected or taken for granted. You can't expect to be treated special when there's nothing special about you.
The mentality many hold is that the man should be the one impressing the woman and show that he is worthy her affection. It creates an unbalanced relationship.
I guess we should all be gentle men and women. It's not only up to one gender to treat the other in a special way. We have equal value and should treat each other as such.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, I believe that men should be gentlemen and chivalrous just as women should be ladies who practice respect and aspire to be honorable. Being a chivalrous gentleman isn't simply about paying for a girl's meal. It's really just about a guy who strives to practice respect, honor, and integrity. It's about being polite, courteous, and having a set of principals.1