My boyfriend wants to hang out with his ex who is also the girl he cheated with on me when they went on a 3 day school trip. Her name is Mia. She's a proclaimed lesbian now but that still didn't stop her from holding hands and letting him kiss her on the trip back in May. She even said she liked him. He told her that he wanted to hang out with her next week and I am not comfortable with it at all. I've gotten 2 second opinions and they agreed that they would flip if their boyfriend tried hanging with an ex and also someone that he cheated with on them. What is your opinion? What would you do and is he totally cool or am I just being controlling? I just don't want this to happen again...
- You're totally right to be worriedVote A
- No he should be able to hang out with herVote B
Most Helpful Guy
Voted A. Going a step further, if he cheated on her for you, he might as well cheat on you for someone else. And the way he's behaving now (wanting to hang out with her), is a clear red flag. Dump his sorry excuse for an ass.1
Most Helpful Girl
My first boyfriend cheated on me with his ex... and a few other people too. we were together for 3 years. When I found out the truth I was done because the trust was gone. The fact that you took this guy back and wants to hang out with his ex who he cheated on you with... to me says he thinks you are naive and he will do it again. To be honest I think you shouldn't be with him in the first place. But I know it can be hard to cut ties with someone you love.1