I used to like her until I had that conversation today. We were on whatsapp, talking about random stuff when topic of "ex and crush" came up, she got to knew that I've never had a girlfriend, and then she asked me this: "Are you gay?". I, then, accused her of being a lesbo :p and then we (in a jokingly manner) argued for awhile about who's gay and who's lesbo... Thing is, as soon as she made fun of the fact that I haven't had a girlfriend by bringing in the gay question joke, my whole perspective of her changed and somehow I'm losing all interest in her. Am I over-reacting or something or you think I'm right to feel this way?
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Well, I think you obviously disliked her joke. To be honest, you don't just come right out and ask a dude if he's gay when you're having a serious convo. So I can see why you were taken aback.
I mean, I don't even think I call my guy friends homos... not even in a joking manner and I've known these dudes for years. So yeah, for a chick to go and say that to your face is kind of offensive, I get it, and I get why you're turned off by it.
Are you overreacting? Well, every person has their limits. You just encountered something that you may or may not be able to live with - her sense of humor. That's up to you to decide, dude. Truly Overreacting though, in my book, means that you all of a sudden cold-shoulder her, stop talking to her or treat her like crap, start spreading rumors, or just think that she's a horrible person as a result of this verbal exchange. This is obviously NOT you. You simply said that you considered it a turn off. Overreacting? No, dude, I don't think so. Sounds pretty level-headed to me.2
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