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For me it always felt like a punch in the stomach. I know she doesn't owe me anything and she's free to talk to whoever she wants but makes me feel depressed. But that's just me, it's probably not true of all guys. I just have low self-esteem.
I wouldn't reject her for it. If I ignored her it wouldn't be to punish her but because I have this tendency to hide and isolate myself when I feel depressed.