So, after a week or two of talking, she wanted to go separate ways and avoid hurting me because she's too depressed to carry on and has no feelings for me, and that it may have just been a crush. It broke me a little and I pleaded to her on Skype, which made her want to cheer me up and make me think she wasn't going to walk away. So she made our last conversation a good one so she didn't have to feel bad. Which annoyed me so much because I genuinly thought she would stick around.
A week later, she's seeing how I'm doing. From there, we grew close again, closer than before. We had deep conversations. She went as far as saying that she wasn't going to leave me again and that she's glad that she did check up on me because she missed me. She went on cam on Skype for the first time with me, after a lot of battling her self conciousness and told me about her illnesses to see if I was genuine. (bipolar, depression and anxiety). She was most afraid that I would leave her because of her looks, she feels that just because she weighs a little more than average that I'd be put off by it. Which I wasn't.
But then, a couple days later, last night to be exact, she did the exact same thing only this time telling she has a crush on someone else that was there before she met me. She told me that she hates that she has no feelings for me because I'm exactly what she's looking for in a guy and that she'd rather push me away so that she doesn't hurt me.
So what do I do?
Most Helpful Girl
Dude charity cases like her will only hurt you dealing with her issues will be very a roller coaster for you believe me I dated my ex when he was a young kid watched when his dad choked his mom dealing with all his issues was way to much for me. Find someone who stable your life would be easier.
Most Helpful Guy
Just keep it at the friendship level cause she obviously is gonna take forever to get really close to you. Care for her and show her that you appreciate spending time with her.