My boyfriend seems to be so distant lately. He gets like this randomly. After we had sex a couple of nights ago, he pushed me away when I came to cuddle with him. He used to cuddle with me before and after sex. He hasn't been wanting to cuddle lately. He has been acting so strange. Like, when he comes home from work... he's very quiet. He plays games on his phone or only engages in small talk. He has this snobby look on his face like he can't stand being around me. It hurts my feelings a lot. It hurts me that I try so hard to make him smile and laugh but he only laughs with other people or if he's watching a funny show. He doesn't text or try to catch up with me throughout the day like he used to. When he goes to the bathroom, he takes his cigarette, toilet tissue and his phone and he sits in there for about 15-25 minutes. He claims that he wouldn't cheat on me. He says if he had someone else he would have the decency to tell me. What's his problem?
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I say tackle him and tell him you have a choice tell me whats up or im not letting you go. And I dont care if you say i dont wanna talk about it tell him i can see that somethings got you in a funk so lets talk cause its having a negative effect on me seeing that we arnt talking like we use to. Its not fair to me if your beating yourself up on something, its better to be honest rather than hide it im here for you. Try to prove to him your going to be there for him.1
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