I don't care what any of you say. I want a military man. But it's so hard because they never look interested or most of them are married or either single but don't look interested or they just want a one night stand. I want the lifestyle. I actually live near a base and I work there. So I see them often. How do I get the confidence to talk to them and see if they would date or something? Just any advice would help! How do I talk to a guy in the service. Thanks Yall! I'm 19 by the way so I just want some advice.
Most Helpful Guy
I am a Service Member, can I ask why you would ask for that?
The reason behind us not wanting to be in a relationship is simply because what we do is unpredictable to say the least and with the spealist units the amount of information we can share with our family and partners is little to none. Basically, to call it worrying for our family and partner would be an understatement.
But, you seem dead set on this, and simply put, we're just normal guys with a not so normal job. Just talk to us, nothing to be scared/shy about. Depending on what you do on the base you can talk to the guys you interact with, there's no key to it0
Most Helpful Girl
Lol you're like the opposite of me. I'm trying to stop dating military guys. Their lifestyle is just... I can't. The next guy who comes up to me who is military and asks me out, I'm gonna say nice to meet you but no thanks it's not going to work out. Maybe I can send him your way lol.1