Most Helpful Guy
"I realized before I met the guy I'm seeing that it wasn't ok"
Why is it not OK? Did you enjoy it at the time? Don't let people convince you that you should feel ashamed of yourself. If you liked doing it, then what's so wrong about it? If you feel bad about it now, then ok, but why is it so? What made you feel bad?
All you can control is if you tell him or not. The way he reacts, you cannot control. If he hates you for what you have done, then do you really think it would be a good thing to be with him? He obviously won't accept who you are. If you tell him and doesn't care, then he loves you for who you are. Don't try to hide or act your way out of this because it's your chance to see if he's for you before you go too far with him.
Most Helpful Girl
Sweetie he'll understand don't worry about it, if he cares for you so much it will be fine he will still love you because he knows that you aren't the person you were in the past.