Most Helpful Girl
This is a bad case of 10/100; you're giving 100% and your partner is putting in minimal effort. You gave up so much thinking that it would make him happy due to his reluctance that you stopped being the person that he actually fell in love with in the first place. Relationships are about compromise, and while it may require sacrifice at times, it shouldn't be the sole thing your relationship is based upon, and it shouldn't fall entirely on you to do all of the sacrificing. He should be putting in the effort just as much as you are, otherwise, the relationship is not only pointless, but it is DOOMED TO FAIL. My advice is to sit your boyfriend down and tell him that he needs to shape up or ship out, because you're not willing to lose yourself in a relationship where you're not even happy.