ok so I've been waiting a while to ask her out in person and tell her i like her, but the only time i see her is at work a few days a week, and we never get seated behind each other, if we do there's always customers and collegeus about, i never get time alone with her, so is it ok to text her and tell her this.. i love spending time with u, i think ur gorgeous i would love to take you on a date, if however u dont feel the same i want to remain friends with you.
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Oh god don't send her that message, that message is so "I'm really, really passive and only expect that you'll probably reject me so I'll suggest we be 'friends' so I won't lose you in case you change your mind later.
No, be blunt, be straight up. Don't give her the whole "oh you don't have to", because she knows she doesn't, she'll decide that on her own. If you want to send her a message by text and not to her face (I personally am all about face to face) then I suggest you don't fear being a bit forward. Say something like: "Listen so-and-so, I really like you and I find you very attractive, so I'd really like to take you on a date some time." It's straight forward, blunt but not too aggressive. It shows confidence and romantic interest. That's all I can suggest.0