I don't think it's safe for him to stay at my house when we've never met in person, but it's also crazy to have to pay for a hotel for a weekend... I also am a graduate student and not yet employed, so even if I wanted to be nice and try to split costs for travel expenses, etc. I might run short.
Is is there a reasonable way to handle this situation?
Most Helpful Guy
Have someone drive you. I only say it cause you might need some protection just in case the meeting doesn't go well.0
Most Helpful Girl
Ask him to meet you half way in a public restaurant where it's safe for you0