When it comes to flirting, dating, and relationships, do you prefer to make the moves, or for the girl to be more assertive?
For example, if you were talking to a girl, would you like it if she was really enthusiastic and into it, or would you like it better if she played a little hard to get? Do you prefer to ask her on a date, or have her ask you?
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I tend to go for more assertive women. When I split up with my long term girlfriend when I was 21 I decided I was going to flip the game on its head and stop laying it all out there like a sucker, and start playing the role of the girl. In my mind, I took an attitude like "why should SHE get chased by ME? Who the hell is this chick to warrant that? I want to see a little chasing from her." Don't look at the woman in a degrading sense, just recognize that she's just a random idiot like the rest of us and shouldn't be placed on a false pedestal. It's just another human being. So I have no problem letting her do the chasing. You'll lose out on some who won't play that game, but I don't want a relationship with a chick that expects that either. Like Mike Damone says in Fast Times At Ridgemont High, you have to have "the attitude." "The Attitude dictates that you don't care if she comes, stays, lays, or prays. No matter what happens your toes are still tappin'." Doesn't mean you have to be an asshole. Just don't be a sucker, as I feel like a lot of girls either consciously or unconsciously respect that.