So I went on date last evening, a tinder one, and well, after like 20 minutes he kissed me and I just fell nothing. Like not good, not bad, more like when I was acting in a high school play and had to kiss my gay friend. Problem is he got super excited. You can see when a guy he's really into you, and he was. But how could he be, it was... Like.. I don't even understand. He called me today, texted me, and I just couldn't reply. The worst is he told me stories of dates he had and he wasn't attracted by the girls, so he just left... I thought it was a hint you know, and I actually fell pretty good about that. You know like "cool so you too you thought it was weird'. But no! He did it again! So I had to leave, I was tired and all... So did that ever happen to you? And how did you react?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes. This happens with most women I kiss. Really nothing you can do about it. I've made out with 2 girl in my whole life that made me feel excited about kissing. And I dated one off and on for about 5 years. I was pretty popular in my fraternity too so it's not like I have a lack experience. It just felt like a chore. I realized later that it's mostly because deep down I knew I was lying. I didn't really want that person I was just tired of waiting for someone I did want to come along. It's like my lips knew I was settling. I'm not sure how to help but I do know the feeling. Surprisingly no ones ever noticed my lack of enthusiasm
Most Helpful Girl
Yeeess this one time I hung out with an ex again. We kissed on his request and immediately after I felt nothing, almost regret due to the nothingness. But he was so happy he nearly cried in front of me. He said it was everything but my mind was so off, and when you think about it, it's sad, and scary, because it just goes to prove that you can never be sure if someone else feels what you feel. And the next time you kiss someone and feel all those crazy emotions, you're aware that the other person might feel nothing at all...