Year after year, I notice that I continue to make more white friends than black. Its kind of been a habit since childhood being that I grew up around a lot of white people. Yet, I tend to feel like the token black girl. Im usually the only black friend out of te group. Also, a lot of my white guy friends flirt with me, but it doesn't seem like any of them would ever ask me out. Why is that?
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One of my best friends is black. LoL, when we first started becoming friends people kept trying to ship us as the token black couple of the school, but we just weren't into each other like that. He's my only black friend... All my other friends are either white, some hispanic and my best best best friend is half Asian half white. So, basically I only hang out with white people. Not on purpose. I have a very hard time making friends and an even harder time making friends of my race. I'm biracial, but I look more black so I kind of identify with that part of me more.
I know the feels though. I've had friends who were white and liked me, but they never asked me out. I believe it's because of their parents. Yes, parents may be accepting of black people, but that doesn't mean they want their son to marry one or date one.1