Is it okay to have feelings for a girl when you are already in a relationship? Is it normal etc?

I have a girlfriend, and I care for her very much. I also have this friend however, whom i have known for a few years. I have always liked her a lot ( in a romantic way), and she feels the same way. For some reason, we never got together, and now that I am in a relationship with another girl, I feel guilty for feeling this way.


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What Girls Said 1

  • It is normal to have those feelings arise but it is NOT okay to let those feelings stay.

    The moment those thoughts or feelings come, you have to at least try to make them go away.

    In your case, I don't know if that is okay.


What Guys Said 1

  • It's normal... the question is... will you act on those feelings?

    • No definitely not! I respect both my girlfriend and friend too much to put them in that situation...

    • Then you will be okay!

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