My parents are from India. I have a sister who is 8 years younger than me. When I was in school, my parents would always shun people who are dating and talk extremely negatively of interracial couples and look down on other Indian parents who let their kids "loose". When I was in university, I wasn't financially independent to live on my own, and one of the conditions of living with my parents while I study, is that I do nothing but study so that I finish my degree early - that means no part time job. While I'm at home, I was forbidden from mentioning the word "dating" or "boyfriend/ girlfriend", as it was considered a bad influence on my sister. I couldn't even tell them that there are so many interesting girls out there who like me but I really want to go and date them - I just need a bit of cash and parents to be understanding without questioning who I'm going with, what time I'll come home etc. I'll just need parents who are reasonable like other parents and allow me to bring over a girl (or take her out if they don't want her at home).
But no - it's all "stupid western culture". We are meant to study our butts off, reject any romantic opportunities, establish ourselves in a great job, THEN allow our parents to find a fiance.
What a load of crap.
Once I finally became financially independent (~22), I still didn't have my own place as I had debts to pay off. I tried living in share accommodation for a bit, but lost my job and it became too hard so had to move back in with my parents. I've been completely independent since 26 (Just when my sister turned 18). During this time, I found it extremely difficult to find a suitable match - most of the genuine girls are taken during university (thanks a lot mom and dad for effing me up and being so ignorant). The only ones I come across now are those with a tonne of baggage, or are undesirable in many ways (e. g. racist, homophobic, uneducated, lack ambition, are smokers, are divorced, have kids)
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You're way too young to be worrying about marriage0