Okay so I work as a bartender/waiter and a couple of months ago this new girl started, she's amazing basically. We flirted back and forth for a while, then a group of us went out one night and we hooked up. Great! But now i'm struggling. We've hung out a couple of times and we get on really well. We had a talk about the whole 'don't date people you work with' thing and I suggested that we try to not interact as much at work (as she doesn't want everyone knowing cause she's still quite new). It feels kind of odd doing this but because I want to talk to her and it feels kind of weird when she talks to other guys at work.
I am an overthinker haha and I may be doing just that in this case, but any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Basically I want to know how I should play it, as I said, I really like this girl. Should we just keep hanging out outside of work and trying to not be to intimate whilst at work? Suggestions please! :)
Most Helpful Girl
Ask her out.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
I don't let such rules get to me when I've got strong feelings for someone even the workplace. I do think you've seriously over thought this when you could have just said that you are into her and would like to continue seeing her outside of work and just keep the work relationship part out of the budding r/s you are starting.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE