Girls, Why do certain Attractive/Hot -looking guys get friend-zoned quickly?

Why do some Hot-looking guys get friend-zoned quickly. Like girls might call him "Bro" within a few minutes of conversation. They will find him handsome, but the guy never get's sex at all.

Why do you think is the most likely reason for the Hot guy to have such a problem?


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  • Because he tries to get her to like him, before she is attracted to him.

    One of the biggest mistakes that good guys make with women is that they try to be liked by a woman for being a good man or for being a nice guy, instead of making her feel sexually attracted to him first.

    Instead of attracting her with his confidence, he hopes to be liked for being a good guy and then feels disappointed when she’s just not that interested in him. If you only want to build a non-sexual friendship with a woman, having her like you as a person is fine.

    However, if you want to have a sexual relationship with her, you’ve got to make her feel sexually attracted to you rather than being a nice, friendly guy and getting her to like you as a person.

    Making her feel sexually attracted to you is about being confident around her, being masculine and creating a sexual vibe with her by the way that you look at her, talk to her, touch her and also how you behave around her.

    • Thanks :) Your explanation was so awesome !! I want to personally ask you...

      Have you met a random guy you were sexually attracted to because of his looks when you first met him, but after a short conversation you were NOT sexually interested anymore because he was boring/ not confident/ only seemed friendly ?

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    • What was the exact reason? Like boring/not confident or something else?

    • What was the exact reason... Like was he boring/not confident or something else?

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  • let me tell you. its human nature that people are attracted towords the people look good, but there are people who dont judge others by their looks and they are very few in no. so, if you find a friend who is like that he/she is the one. and, if not many people know you that doesn't means they hate you , you are precious

    • Thanks :) That is very true and I love the way you expressed a simple truth with intense emotion !! You must be surely Gorgeous ;)

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