Most Helpful Guy
No, I would not. I have before, and it didn't go so well. I always felt like I had to save her or protect her from herself, and that's an unhealthy and one sided relationship. I do not expect women to bail me out or help me in those ways.
I do empathize with depression and those negative feelings. I think it's important to understand though, that everyone feels incredibly low at times. That comes with being human. So if you're feeling that way, you should understand that everyone on planet earth can relate, and you're not alone or abnormal.
Most Helpful Girl
i would help them, but i feel as though if you are going to commit to someone (as opposed to just dating them casually) they really need to love themselves and get themselves together first. i feel like i can say this, because i once had a friend who self-harmed, and he told me he would often feel guilty because his girlfriend didn't know and he also felt guilty, because not only was he dishonest but he wasn't entirely all together himself. so no i wouldn't, mainly for the sake of the other person.